So if I like Kobe as a player better than LeBron somehow I need big boy pants?
It's not about who you like better as a player...it's about who is actually the better player.
I liked Charles Barkley far, far better than I liked MJ...but MJ was the better player.
I liked Kobe as a player, better than I like Lebron...but Lebron is the better player.
Now, if we're strictly talking about the better Laker...that's Kobe because he played his entire career with the Lakers and won more titles than Lebron has.