Yankee Traveler
Well-Known Member
What you just said right here just shows how little you understand the job that a person would be asked to do here. You are far from having all the details to try and make a judgment call on this person. My wife and I both do counseling and do you know how many times we end up telling people they are not ready to receive the help that they say they want? I have a rule that if a person meets with me for 6 sessions and there is very little or no change then I tell them they either need to seek someone with better credentials or rethink why they are there. People like Robert Kraft are some of the more difficult people to actually talk to because they have been so used to everyone around them kissing their backside. It wouldn't shock me that this guy came up to Kraft wanting to talk and Kraft wanted nothing of it. At that point if they don't want help then what is the point of sticking around?
I don't know if that is the case at all, but for you to sit here and judge this guy for stepping down after he has been with that organization through thick and thin says more about your character than his.
You cannot change a person, they have to want to change.
Just like an addict quitting smoking/drinking/gambling...they have to want it.