Yo Tee
Well-Known Member
I think any of us can have an opinion on whether it's a big deal or not...what we don't have a say in is how she should feel about the comments.
The reality is, there are some job roles that women are now in that they were not in 20 yrs ago.
Two week ago we had a large delivery at the office and the UPS driver was female...unconsciously, I asked if she needed any help getting the freight in...I wouldn't have asked that question if it was a guy.
She politely turned my request down and said she could handle it, and she did. But this whole thing with Cam has me thinking...was it sexist of me to offer her help to do her job?
But you asking her for help isn't sexist. It's polite. You didn't say "Huh, a woman delivery driver? Sure you can handle those heavy boxes?" Once you make it about the fact that she's a woman, that changed the narrative.