For a lot of parents, the video games are their babysitting so to speak.
Parents working 2-3 jobs or just not involved enough in their kids lives.....
A little from column A and a little from column B, imo.
Have to limit their time and be careful about the games. But for a lot of folks, it's just easier not to.
None of the girls ever got into video games. With my son, we limited how long he was allowed to play without a break and researched video games before we bought them.
He still likes his video games, but interestingly, he still pretty much holds himself to the same time limits we had for him. lol