In situations like this with Dame, both the players and the team, need to understand a couple of things.
The players need to understand that the reason the league allows teams to pay more to keep their own players is so that they will stay with the team that drafted them. It was to keep big market teams from poaching stars from small market teams after that 1st contract.
Don't take that big contract that the team can give, then demand a trade a year or 2 later and bitch when they won't accept a crap return.
For the teams, especially the small market teams, they need to understand that their stars are going to want titles. They bitched about big market teams poaching their stars, so the league designed things so that they're very likely to have their star player for at least 7-8 years before he starts looking to leave. You said you needed that to compete for titles.
If you're going to sign that player to a big contract and he's telling you he wants a team that he can win a title with...don't say you're going to give him one and then not do it...and in some cases, not even try.
The players need to understand that the reason the league allows teams to pay more to keep their own players is so that they will stay with the team that drafted them. It was to keep big market teams from poaching stars from small market teams after that 1st contract.
Don't take that big contract that the team can give, then demand a trade a year or 2 later and bitch when they won't accept a crap return.
For the teams, especially the small market teams, they need to understand that their stars are going to want titles. They bitched about big market teams poaching their stars, so the league designed things so that they're very likely to have their star player for at least 7-8 years before he starts looking to leave. You said you needed that to compete for titles.
If you're going to sign that player to a big contract and he's telling you he wants a team that he can win a title with...don't say you're going to give him one and then not do it...and in some cases, not even try.