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redskinsfan
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Totally agree with you. I actually do have at least one close friend who got into a brawl with her husband. At least a slap was exchanged. The situation was volatile and the issue one of fidelity. Tempers are going to be sky high in a situation like this no matter what. It is a difficult line between protecting yourself and 'abusing' your significant other, as a man when in this type of situation. That's why I said I'd seen Both sides of an issue like this. I do not believe that the women is always right. You can be a part of the problem and bear blame. What cannot be lost regardless, is the physical advantage most any man will have over most females. This can't be lost in a discussion of domestic issues, nor can it be the only thing looked at.
For all the gender neutrality the (DV) law seeks to achieve, it is decidedly one-sided when it comes to a victim claiming DV in California. That doesn't always have to be the female, but it most often is. The standard is low and, if you're in a domestic relationship of any kind, you're best advised to refrain from getting physical.