b_lake
Ask your lady, she likes.
The problem with avatars is that they are subjective to the person reviewing them.
What one admin feels is appropriate, another feels its a violation.
Also avatars that were acceptable on Wednesday with certain Admins are now an issue on Friday with the same Admins for whatever reason (personal or otherwise).
It leads to posters questioning policies (which is a completely normal response) to admins now making ultimatums because of the perceived questioning of authority (which sometimes it is and sometimes it is merely asking a question for clarification)
Its all very confusing. Vague rules, varying stances, bruised egos, perceived drama.
You lack the word "vagina" and/or "pussy" in your post...