ram29jackson
New Member
I'm not the one who used the term. Like I said, I think in the context of this conversation it's an amorphous, bullshit term that conceals what someone is really trying to say. It's generally used by heteros that have a problem with gays. I've never heard it used by a gay person to describe themselves. "I live the gay lifestyle", for instance...It's ridiculous. I don't use the term with respect to my life. You used the term so you tell me what you mean by it.