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I'm not making the claim that Ned was perfect by any means, only that what he did at the Tower of Joy wasn't dishonorable. If Ned was fleshed out as perfect he would have been an absolute bore. I think his reputation versus the actual Ned is what was used to flesh him out more than anything.Right, absolutely fueled by regret. Regret at pushing kids out of windows to protect his sister that only 'loves' him for what he can do for her.
My only point was that Ned, if he'd have lived would have been equally well drawn, and GRRM leaves lots of little clues as to how he wasn't by any means perfect. AGAIN, he's still a good guy, just not perfect.
Who in the books so far most closely meets that ideal?
I'd say 2, Barristan and Brienne. Both of them have difficulty meeting their duty by staying true to the ideal. Both are aware of this. And do it anyway.
I could see Brienne. And it's probably not a coincidence that I think she's the most boring prominent character in the entire book. Less so in the show for some reason. I don't feel like I know enough about Barristan to say that about him.