flyerhawk
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He beat Ned and his five in straight up combat, until Reed backstabbed him. That isn't Stark's absurd honor system, it's the KNIGHTLY CODE. The one that Brienne tries to follow. THEN, he doesn't offer Dayne respite, he just outright kills him. Just because they're on the side we cheer for doesn't change what they did.
Except that it was Howland Reed that did the stabbing not Ned. So Ned's dishonor would only be in reporting that he defeated him.
And I think you're putting too fine a point on 'bragging.' No, the honorable Ned Stark would never 'BRAG' about defeating Dayne. But Bran says it in that scene. 'I've heard the story hundreds of times...' Ned allowed that to be the narrative. He never set the record straight.
GRRM spends a shvt ton of time on this concept. Why is it that Jamie Lannister never tells anyone about the wildfire under KL? Why doesn't he EXPLAIN how he saved the city? Why does he allow the narrative to be that he's a kingslayer and an oath-breaker?
For honor.
GRRM loves his irony.
Certainly GRRM likes to ridicule the concept of honor which caused all sorts of problems in the source material for his stories, the medieval Europe period.