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Shanemansj13
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@Pack 500 you are OTC
Man I love cats. I have 2 of them. Nathan Scott Phillips and Lazarus are true heroes and things are better because they exist.
I am not a perfect neighbor either. My dog barks a lot when I am at work. It is an indoor dog, but I am sure he hears it. On his side he probably has several things that he feel makes him the victim. No feud is one sided that is for sure. Gad damn it I hate that guy though. I truly regret the not seeing his kids comment though. That comment is going to make things worse and more likely that he will go over the top in response, and if my kid got caught up in this because I escalated then things would get real ugly. I should probably try to find a way to deescalate at this point.
The only way I see is to give a kudos to his response and then ignore it. Which I will do as long as it has no impact on my kid.
I have always been a dog person, Dirty up the counters, sit in the corner and are useless. Probably just the ones I have encountered, I’m sure if you train your cat, it likes to play, etc. they are very useful animals, I am just not fan
Probably time to just talk to him again... I know it sucks... but you are right the comments are something you cant take back... and you don't want this to become Seth Rogan vs a frat level of feud...
If you want me to come over and deescalate just call me, I am famous for deescalating things... Just ask @Nosferatu and treff
I am curious what makes me the bad one here. I escalated for sure, but returning his cat shit to him is more than fair. Perhaps being as mean with the words this morning was too far, but waking him up at 4 am is a fair response to waking up a child late at night.
I won't argue that I for sure escalated. If he had let off the fireworks in front of his own driveway I would have assumed a one time thing, but setting them off in my drive way made his intentions pretty clear.
I won't argue that me escalating was not the best option, but me and this guy never really got along. His cat constantly using my backyard as his bathroom has been a point of contention for some time. We have discussed it and his response was "Out Door Cat, I can't control it". Overall this is the end result of a long time of us not getting along. I was tired of trying to be civil and finally escalated. No doubt our mutual dislike led to my responses to be more extreme, but at no point did I initiate.
Calling attention to him not having his kids was an over step, I don't disagree with that, but fuck that guy.
Probably time to just talk to him again... I know it sucks... but you are right the comments are something you cant take back... and you don't want this to become Seth Rogan vs a frat level of feud...
If you want me to come over and deescalate just call me, I am famous for deescalating things... Just ask @Nosferatu and treff
They didn't, look how you turned out! They failed miserably!
out of 7 kids 6 turned out really well. 86% success rate I think is well above the national average.
-Buy a 22, problem solved, he's an outdoor cat, shit happens!
Neighbor sounds like a real dickhole.
But @Mebert you need to be the bigger man and try to squash it. Invite him to the cookout and let bygones be bygones. But if he doesn't bring beer or at minimum some chips and salsa, that guy would be dead to me.
I just shit on 500’s lawn, I mean my cat did.