Sir Robin Of Camelot
You seem angry. Miserable, even.
A person that beats on women cannot grow out of it. They have to accept that they have a problem and have the desire to change. They have to be willing to go to counseling to work on facilitating that.
That's a solid point... along the same level as an addict. If the individual isn't amenable to change, then it doesn't matter what "counseling" is available.