I did text TJL and my picks are inText TJL again please he has to re-pick.
Milk Family drama alert...
Want to hear your guys opinion about this...
My Father and his sister have been fighting ever since my grandparents died... It has gotten so bad that they just don't talk... haven't really talked in the last 2+ years...
We just found out that my first cousin( my aunt's daughter), has been married since last September... Clearly we were not invited to the wedding not even told about it...
Here is the thing though, I don't think anyone in the family knew about the wedding, because a couple months ago when my parents and I went to my other first cousin's(my aunt's Son) new son's bris(jew thing), nobody even knew that my dad and his sister were not talking... If the wedding was not a secret, people would have wondered why we were not at the wedding... And of course she was not even there for her own brother's new son's bris...
The working theory is that my aunt and uncle are embarrassed about the WHO my cousin married... She married a big Black guy... Yes, I know that sounds racist, but you have to understand that Jews are a minority, and are taught that they have to marry in their religion to keep the population up... Although, marrying a non-jew is frowned upon, it is not really the worst thing, as many jews marry outside their religion(including my sister)... But could marrying a black man be a double whammy?? I honestly, have no clue what to think about this...
we somehow found out yesterday... one of my sisters found her on facebook(she is a bit of a snoop)... We were afraid to tell my dad, because we had no clue how he would react... My mom caved and told him... But, I really have no clue how to even think about this...
Milk Family drama alert...
Want to hear your guys opinion about this...
My Father and his sister have been fighting ever since my grandparents died... It has gotten so bad that they just don't talk... haven't really talked in the last 2+ years...
We just found out that my first cousin( my aunt's daughter), has been married since last September... Clearly we were not invited to the wedding not even told about it...
Here is the thing though, I don't think anyone in the family knew about the wedding, because a couple months ago when my parents and I went to my other first cousin's(my aunt's Son) new son's bris(jew thing), nobody even knew that my dad and his sister were not talking... If the wedding was not a secret, people would have wondered why we were not at the wedding... And of course she was not even there for her own brother's new son's bris...
The working theory is that my aunt and uncle are embarrassed about the WHO my cousin married... She married a big Black guy... Yes, I know that sounds racist, but you have to understand that Jews are a minority, and are taught that they have to marry in their religion to keep the population up... Although, marrying a non-jew is frowned upon, it is not really the worst thing, as many jews marry outside their religion(including my sister)... But could marrying a black man be a double whammy?? I honestly, have no clue what to think about this...
we somehow found out yesterday... one of my sisters found her on facebook(she is a bit of a snoop)... We were afraid to tell my dad, because we had no clue how he would react... My mom caved and told him... But, I really have no clue how to even think about this...