jarntt
Well-Known Member
IMHO a "hater" is someone that always finds the wrong in someone and stresses the bad and ignores the good and blames that player/coach for all that is wrong. A "ball washer" (or whatever word you like) is the exact opposite and talks about only the good and makes excuses for the bad - blames the WRs or OL when a pass is missed or the QB messes up. Both are usually 100% equally annoyingis it that black & white?
hater or not hater? Is there a middle ground?
I am still concerned about him, but I have bashed some things about him & also defended him at times. Which do I fall under?
There is nothing wrong with criticizing players and pointing out where they need to be better or even say you think they are holding the team back or that we would be better off with a replacement as long as you also give him his props when due. Just like there is nothing wrong with praising a guy and putting him up on a pedestal as long as you are able to also see his flaws.
Being a fan has it's highs and lows and Doing a little of both of the above is part of being a caring fan. Doing one or the other constantly is what always comes off as more of a fan of a particular player than the team or on the opposite side seeming as if you secretly are hoping for a player to do poorly just so you can blame him for it or because you don't like him. We all do both from time to time but the amount of people on here that criticize Dak for every little thing and give others a pass signifies the worst in some fans to me and does indeed come off as if they get some indirect joy out of him screwing up because they have dug their heels in so deeply on him being the problem that their pride won't let them stray from that. But, none of that means you have to always speak positively of a player just because he is on "your" team.