He's was 17 and did something wrong and stupid. Hopefully it was a mistake and he can learn from it and not the beginning of becoming a terrible person. Teens, male teens especially are quite stupid when it comes to sex and relationships. Most grow out of it. He may or may not.My biggest frustration with the Mailloux situation is that it just perpetuates the culture which we’ve spent the past week (years, really) trying to detoxify. I honestly want the kid to have another chance, but to me, it’s not really up to him or the 20 powerful (likely straight white dudes) to make that choice. That’s really on the victim, who legitimately said his apology was tepid at best, and others came when he was getting pressure from elsewhere to protect his image. I want him to see what he did was wrong, and why. Seems like he’s getting there, but pretty sure I don’t want him learning and maturing under Bergevin.
Secondarily, this is ANOTHER opportunity to discuss the culture of the sport. I know it’s not just hockey, but…I do work around locker rooms and don’t hear this kinda stuff nearly as much. The guy made this choice and sent it to his team, clearly thinking it was accepted and laudable behavior. Big red flag. I’m hoping it came to light because teammates thought he was an idiot…but hard to believe this comes from nowhere, you know? You don’t go into the office and show coworkers a lewd picture if you’re not pretty confident it’s going to be well received. THATS the systemic problem. Calling your teammate a f** FOR BEING ASSAULTED is the problem. For a sport that talks about team chemistry and intangibles all the damn time, there’s sure a lot of toxic people around.
They’re different, but come from the same place. A feeling of entitlement over someone else, of power, of no consequences. I’m sincere when I say I want him to have a chance. But when he told teams to not draft him, showing a shred of maturity, I think he needed that. For more than one reason. Again, it cycles back to a culture, and it doesn’t bode well that Bergevin (and plenty of others in that room) are apparently tone deaf.He's was 17 and did something wrong and stupid. Hopefully it was a mistake and he can learn from it and not the beginning of becoming a terrible person. Teens, male teens especially are quite stupid when it comes to sex and relationships. Most grow out of it. He may or may not.
The overreactions here are hilarious. Fire the gm for the pick? Fine the team? Compare him to a bigoted 25 year old who physically attacked another person? For a non violent act a 17 year old did?
Maybe that's the issue. If It was a violent act the hockey community would probably be much more accepting of it.
Oh I'm sure sports culture in general is tone deaf on things like this. Maybe not. You would know better than I.They’re different, but come from the same place. A feeling of entitlement over someone else, of power, of no consequences. I’m sincere when I say I want him to have a chance. But when he told teams to not draft him, showing a shred of maturity, I think he needed that. For more than one reason. Again, it cycles back to a culture, and it doesn’t bode well that Bergevin (and plenty of others in that room) are apparently tone deaf.
edit: one add too…just because this wasn’t violent doesn’t mean it won’t have that kind of outcome. This is how you create lifelong trauma in a victim. Which can have pretty awful results.
I guess now is not the time to make a joke about Dash taking unauthorized daguerreotypes of women in his youth?
Heard old French goalie prospect Axel Becouze recommended picking him.He was drafted by the Flames this weekend.
Cameron Whynot - Stats, Contract, Salary & More
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He was drafted by the Flames this weekend.
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embrace the hate.
well. I think they’re just going to roll with all the bad PR at once I guess.
embrace the hate.
I'm assuming that started with the Corey Perry signing working out OK.
Whose to say they will win?Im actually starting to really hate them.. and not in a rival way. like they are pathetic for what they are getting involved in. Winning shouldn't come at these costs....
3. We have asked Logan not to participate in our rookie or main training camp this fall. Being a player in the NHL is a privilege that is earned - not a right that is granted. As the year progresses, we will reassess Logan's readiness to be part of our organization."Let me see if I can just sneak this in here while everybody's occupied by free agency."