No wonder Arian Foster's back is tweaked

[SonnyCID]

I kind of look at it like this...for young males, hot women are like crack.

We're essentially like dogs when it comes to an attractive woman and some brain cells go south of your navel if you will. I'm all for you live and you learn...but the price they have to pay, just makes it perpetual is my point.

The courts make it so...in the case of T.O., reportedly was paying $40k a month...initially he tried to honor it, but when the NFL paychecks stopped coming, the $40k a month didn't stop going out...wouldn't you claim to be broke too?

I agree that we make bad choices sometimes because we think with our dicks. And if it was a one night stand that went awry, I may feel a little bad for him. But this was him making bad choices over and over again. Play with fire, get burned.

As far as the money.... He knew what something like this would cost, which makes his repeated poor decisions even more inexcusable. Especially when it's money that he should be putting in to his family's future.

 

[ATL96Steeler]

No. The system is there for the child's protection.

They are both stupid, but the kid is innocent.

The system should be there to protect the kids, but once the checks start coming in the courts be making sure the child's needs are met, short term and long term...They don't, these women are living lavish lifestyles off this money and when the player goes broke (we know that's coming) the money they've been getting is spent and the child has nothing.

Child education trust funds should be mandated by the court and reasonable living expenses paid until the child is a legal adult.

 

[JDM]

Take away a whore's rights just because she is whore ...not that would be a broken system.

What rights?


How about the guy gets some rights? The guy's opinion doesn't matter. If the guy wants the kid and the girl doesn't, does he have a say? If he doesn't and she does, does he have a say? If he's clearly the better parent, what are the chances he gets custody?

But no matter what, for a mistake made by two people, it's the guy who pays, and the guy who has no say.

 

[SonnyCID]

The system should be there to protect the kids, but once the checks start coming in the courts be making sure the child's needs are met, short term and long term...They don't, these women are living lavish lifestyles off this money and when the player goes broke (we know that's coming) the money they've been getting is spent and the child has nothing.

Child education trust funds should be mandated by the court and reasonable living expenses paid until the child is a legal adult.

Dont they have seminars to warn NFL players about the way these things work. Playing dumb after cheating on your wife for a year with a whore doesn't work with me.

 

[MrMoJoRisin63]

Exactly some posters are to dumb or sexist to understand that.



I am not sure you have ever been correct. But let's play you stupid little game and see the world through your sexist eyes. Just answer some questions.

1. Do you think she raped him?

2. Do you think she forced him to have unprotected sex?

3. Do you think he and his family has the right to threaten her because she does not want to abort?

4. Do you think Foster should have no obligation to the baby because she chose to keep the kid?

Guess JDM did not want to answer, I wonder why

 

[JDM]

I'm sexist? How about the system that only cares about one side?

 

[R.J. MacReady]

What rights?


How about the guy gets some rights? The guy's opinion doesn't matter. If the guy wants the kid and the girl doesn't, does he have a say? If he doesn't and she does, does he have a say? If he's clearly the better parent, what are the chances he gets custody?

But no matter what, for a mistake made by two people, it's the guy who pays, and the guy who has no say.

She is paying. She has to raise the kid. That is paying, just ask your parents. It is had hard work to raise a kid.

 

[SonnyCID]

What rights?


How about the guy gets some rights? The guy's opinion doesn't matter. If the guy wants the kid and the girl doesn't, does he have a say? If he doesn't and she does, does he have a say? If he's clearly the better parent, what are the chances he gets custody?

But no matter what, for a mistake made by two people, it's the guy who pays, and the guy who has no say.

He should be willing to do what's best for the kid. And if that is an uphill custody fight, no excuses not to do it.

 

[JDM]

She is paying. She has to raise the kid. That is paying, ask for your parents.

She doesn't have to raise the kid. She could have not had the kid.

But I guarantee you if foster attempts to raise the kid, she fights tooth and nail to keep it. Because she doesn't give a shit. She just wants the money,

 

[JDM]

He should be willing to do what's best for the kid. And if that is an uphill custody fight, no excuses not to do it.

And he should. But even if he does he is unlikely to have a chance.

 

[SonnyCID]

And he should. But even if he does he is unlikely to have a chance.

So what. If he really cared he would do what's right. But I doubt he does.

 

[ATL96Steeler]

I agree that we make bad choices sometimes because we think with our dicks. And if it was a one night stand that went awry, I may feel a little bad for him. But this was him making bad choices over and over again. Play with fire, get burned.

As far as the money.... He knew what something like this would cost, which makes his repeated poor decisions even more inexcusable. Especially when it's money that he should be putting in to his family's future.

You would think, but I was only half joking when I said it was like crack (not that I know what crack does, but I know it's bad)...the court system is easier to fix I think...if women didn't see that potentially huge payday, they would think more than twice about making themselves available.

In the WNBA era...female college bb players don't leave early nearly as often as males...but if the pot of gold was the same as the NBA, they would.

We're on the same page here imo...I don't feel sorry for the athletes, I just think we will continue to hear about said cases until the courts correct these massive payouts for child support.

 

[Stevein2012]

Dude made a baby, he should have to pay for it.

 

[MrMoJoRisin63]

I'm sexist? How about the system that only cares about one side?

Yeah the side of the baby.

 

[JDM]

If it cared about the baby custody would be determined based on who provides a better home, not who has a vagina.

 

[MrMoJoRisin63]

Just curious JDM are you paying Child Support at the moment? Or should you be?

 

[JDM]

No. I haven't and likely will never have a child. I have no desire to.

That doesn't mean the system isn't more broken than the war on drugs. It's a fucking joke.

 

[Midnightangel]

Not trying to take this racist but what is it with black men and not wanting to use condoms OR pay child support?

Didn't Warren Sapp actually lose just about everything he owned in an auction because he was so far behind on child support to like 5 kids?

Except for his SB and national championship rings which he just happened to 'lose' so they couldn't be auctioned off.

Atheletes have GOT to be smarter than this.

You KNOW women are out there on the prowl looking for an easy pay day.

Cheating is common among rich men (not to say that it's right, just common) and you've got to protect your wife, family and yourself.

Wear a condom!!!

Tom Brady has fathered children out of wedlock as well, but he pays for his.

What does a condom cost? A buck? IF that?

So you can spend a buck or you can spend millions on child support.

Why do so many men choose wrongly?

 

[SonnyCID]

Oh Jesus, white guys dont like condoms either. And plenty of them skip on their child support.

 

[Nooone]

guys i think you are missing the point here. JDM is not defending foster's actions, i don't think anyone would. He is simply saying this dumb broad doesn't deserve to make a fortune off it.