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Anyone who acts like Avery deserves having that said to him is being hypocritical. Simmonds has the banana thrown at him and everyone freaks out, as we should, but we just act like avery deserves to have himself called a F****t cause he is a douche. Slurs like that are just as bad as racial slurs, I lost alot of respect for simmonds right there.
upon further review, i did forget avery backed same sex marriage.. so i guess homosexuality was related to the topic.. in that case, i'll agree, it was wrong
still think the way i do about the word itself though.. so the above is still true for other situations
I understand what you mean, as the word itself has for a great many years been used as a common insult in sports, but as you have acknowledged, Avery's activism for the gay rights movement makes this a hard one to call.
The world isn't going to change overnight, so I do not anticipate every athlete to have expunged the F word from their vocabulary, especially when things get heated. But for this to have been used against Avery specifically is very much not a good situation.
If it was anyone but Wayne Simmonds, it would be easy to say we should throw the book at him to make an example, but with what happened to Simmonds just this past week, it puts a terrible awkward spin on everything. I do not envy Brendan Shanahan right now, but despite the horrifically offensive banana incident, if I was in Shanahan's shoes, I would set the precedent here: That word is not acceptable in the NHL and Simmonds needs to be suspended just like James "Cock Sucker" Wisniewski.
unfortunately i think thats what they should, and probably will do
but honestly, the world needs to get thicker skin.. they're words.. what happened to 'sticks and stones'?
And let's say somebody called Simmonds the n-word. He should just let that roll off his back, right?
The whole reason that racial and homophobic slurs are bad isn't because they are a descriptor of a race or sexual preference. If that were the case, then describing somebody as gay or black would be just as bad as the slurs. The reason that they are bad is because people use them as insults. When somebody uses an insult as a descriptor, they create a connotation between that insult and everyone it is describing. It's surprising how toxic that can be both to them and society around them. And yeah, sticks and stones apply when somebody is calling you a terrible player or insulting your mother, but not for hate speech.
And I think Simmonds (and every player who uses any kind of slurs) should get sensitivity training. You can't make excuses because he's black - a homophobic black guy is just as much a prick as a racist gay guy. You just can't say stuff like that on TV while you represent a sports team. You have to be role models, and stuff like that sets the league back.