irule et al...

[Red_Alert]

Get your buddies together and head down to the committee hearings next Wednesday. Just being there is all the support we need. It is time to end the gender bias in Nebraska's court systems NOW.

Nebraskans for Family - A Fathers Rights Organization

Either of these bills has a very good chance to pass. The Nebraska Bar Association which has for years been opposing Joint Custody of children has opted to no longer oppose it. In part because studies done for decades have proven that limiting time between fathers and their children has been detrimental to the children's and community health. It has greatly increased their likelyhood for problems with alcohol/drug abuse, truancy from school, dropping out of school, teen pregnancy, and early incarcerations. Last session (April 2012), the bar association was told by the legislature to be prepared to disprove the studies in this years session. Obviously they couldn't so they've backed down on the issue. Their argument that going back and forth between two homes is too disruptive to children has been proven to be false and they will now be reduced to fighting over cum stained couches to line their pockets.

http://www.nebraskalegislature.gov/FloorDocs/Current/PDF/Intro/LB22.pdf
This bill is patterned off of one that recently passed in Arizona.

http://www.nebraskalegislature.gov/FloorDocs/Current/PDF/Intro/LB212.pdf
This bill is patterned off of one that recently passed in Minnesota.

When reading the bills pay attention to what is underlined as that is what will be added to the current law removing gender bias from the gutless judges hands.

For you younger guys these bills are your future. They will prevent the abuses that the Nebraska courts and mothers have been submitting children to for decades.

 

[Brasky]

Am I gonna see you on local access poundin yourn fists on the podium ranting about cum stained couches?

 

[popeyecv64]

I myself could never finger this out

when a divorce happens ....the utes go to the crazy mama ??


this somewhat called judicial system we have is somewhat in question


we need to pray for strong leaders to back up this countries intent


to bad we have 51% of amurica being stuuupid and votin fer that obbummer nimrod


oh well

 

[Brasky]

I'll tell ya what I'm for. Let the kids decide who they wanna spend their time with. It's not the courts business.

Kids can decide for themselves.

 

[Red_Alert]

Am I gonna see you on local access poundin yourn fists on the podium ranting about cum stained couches?

LOL No.

That is an inside joke of mine. Let the 'loving' mothers spend their money fighting for the $50 cum stained couch. She can have it, I'll get a new one.

She won't be spending your childrens future on child custody attorneys, that's for damned sure.

 

[popeyecv64]

Am I gonna see you on local access poundin yourn fists on the podium ranting about cum stained couches?

you're are such .....

a little angry liptard with entitlement and parental issues maaaan

yourn nads may drop someday

 

[Red_Alert]

I myself could never finger this out

when a divorce happens ....the utes go to the crazy mama ??


this somewhat called judicial system we have is somewhat in question


we need to pray for strong leaders to back up this countries intent


to bad we have 51% of amurica being stuuupid and votin fer that obbummer nimrod


oh well

This ain't about Obama Pops. The state establishes child custody not the federal govt. This state happens to be a red state and has been risking the futures of children for decades. If it were up to the feds the constitution would have come into play a long time ago. It's the state of Nebraska that has been violating the constitution for decades.

 

[Red_Alert]

I'll tell ya what I'm for. Let the kids decide who they wanna spend their time with. It's not the courts business.

Kids can decide for themselves.

The courts won't listen to a kid until they are 13 y/o. By that time they have generally been screwed up by hateful moms that have been using them as a means of power and control.

 

[popeyecv64]

The courts won't listen to a kid until they are 13 y/o. By that time they have generally been screwed up by hateful moms that have been using them as a means of power and control.

so it is a fact

crazy women are the devil and commies ta boot

 

[Red_Alert]

you're are such .....

a little angry liptard with entitlement and parental issues maaaan

yourn nads may drop someday

Pops

Please try to stay on topic here. It's not a dem/repub issue. Your repub legislature has been blocking these bills for years.

This is about giving kids the right to know their dad other than every other weekend. ie...4 days a month.

 

[iruletheskool]

I just might go to that.

But.. you cant honestly think a 3 yr old kid knows whats best for him can ya brasky??

 

[popeyecv64]

Pops

Please try to stay on topic here. It's not a dem/repub issue. Your repub legislature has been blocking these bills for years.

This is about giving kids the right to know their dad other than every other weekend. ie...4 days a month.

sorry sir

I just am lookin at the big picture is all

 

[Red_Alert]

I just might go to that.

But.. you cant honestly think a 3 yr old kid knows whats best for him can ya brasky??

A 3 year old kid knows they love mom and dad equally. They seek the approval of both equally. They know that mom and dad have different things to offer.

 

[Red_Alert]

This is the most important part.

FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER, THE NEBRASKA STATE BAR ASSOCIATION HAS VOTED NOT TO OPPOSE THESE BILLS!!!! (They are not supporting the bills, but the legislative committee has voted to take no position).

Current Legislation - VERY IMPORTANT!

It is they who have been killing these bills in the past.

 

[Brasky]

I just might go to that.

But.. you cant honestly think a 3 yr old kid knows whats best for him can ya brasky??

No. That is a toddler. I'm talking about kids. I think 13 is kind of ridiculous.

10 years old. Let them make their choice at ten. That way the kid has a stable environment where they feel comfortable long before the critical HS years.

 

[Brasky]

The courts won't listen to a kid until they are 13 y/o. By that time they have generally been screwed up by hateful moms that have been using them as a means of power and control.

Makes sense.

 

[NE1tm2nv]

For you younger guy's this would be in your best interest.

Nobody plans on getting divorced, but when it happens, women will and do use the children as a weapon against you, they think emotionally, if they're pissed at you, they'll do whatever they can to make you as miserable as possible, somehow it's justification in they're mind. My story is way to long for me to write out, but take it from somebody who has been down this road and it's NOT a fun road to travel.

I ended up getting custody of my son when he was 12 he's now 21, but what we (my son & I) had to go through to get to that point, was miserable.

X & I divorced when he was 5, I paid child support for 7 years ($48,300), out of that money she did not set up an account for him, save any of it, na da nothing. When I got custody she fought me on the child support, as for her paying me. We got into a heated discussion in my lawyers conference room, which he quickly mediated and ask me to go to his office.
His only question to me: Was this about the money or was this about my son? That was the only question he ask me. My answer was my son, so she ended up not paying any child support, nothing na da. Which I agreed too, in order to get primary custody.
She ended up getting what was called "Reasonable visitation", which meant: She got visitation when I permitted. He didn't have to go with her if he didn't want to, there was no set schedule at all.

I can not stress what kind of records I had to keep in order to get custody to begin with. Make damn sure you document everything, and I mean everything. Dates, Times, Issues, every fucking thing.

Sorry to carry on....

I stand by you RA... Been there, done that.